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“Cauliflower yellow, one mania.” Spring is the season of high mental health disorders, in the face to find a job, promotion, competition, studies such as pressure, students easily confused and erroneous. Two days before yesterday, the Guangdong Social transition to strengthen mental health education seminars held in Dongguan. Showing the last couple of years at the school campus of a large suicide, psychological deflection such cases, positive community sounded the alarm.
In the current transitional period, particularly in the rapid development of urbanization in Guangdong, in addition to remaining in rural areas and other national issues, in the towns, Yin Fu Mu busy working, entertaining Er by grandparents, relatives, nannies and even teachers might support the ” Children Left spiritual “is gradually emerging, and derive a series of new but serious adolescent mental health problems, thought-provoking.
Spirit of Children Left Behind
Because parents are busy living, entertainment and by grandparents, relatives, nannies and even teachers to support the town on behalf of children. They are generally not separated from their parents for too long, and learn more favorable living conditions, but over-protection, to meet the excess material life, ethical life imbalance, so that there is a great spiritual emptiness, the viability of their constantly down, and induced fragile psychological endurance.
Guangdong vigorously training
Psychology Teacher Education
Cases occurred in recent years, and the urbanization process brought in new students mental health problems, yesterday’s meeting was also the province this year school students mental health education on the arrangements for the work, the key lies in Cujinquanti students the theme of cultivating healthy personality, uphold and improve the mental health education prevention, early warning, intervention, “the three pre-” working mechanisms.
According to reports, this year, Guangdong will continue to strengthen primary and secondary schools, secondary vocational schools, kindergartens, teacher training in mental health education, continue to organize to carry out psychological education of teachers around the A, B, C license training, 2010 focused on strengthening the school, early childhood education center team construction. Strive to the end of this year, the province’s primary and secondary mental education teacher certificate training in the completion of C; Pearl River Delta region of psychological education school teacher training certificate B 70%, and other areas of psychological education school teacher training certificate B to achieve more than 50% province in the training of vocational school certificate B to 50%.
At the same time, in-depth study of social transition, mental health education of the new situation and new problems, and actively seek solutions to respond to strategies to achieve the three schools of Mental Health Transformation: the mainly psychological counseling for minority students, mainly for the entire transformation Students of popular education models; to remedy and treatment for type-based counseling and crisis intervention model transformation to support the nature of the development of preventive education model; to mental health counseling professionals Individual Combat mode the transition to the work network and psychological professionals and ideological education work force, fully integrated full sex mode.
[Spirit Left fiercer than a tiger]
Parents “Sheep” children empty
Yang Lu (a pseudonym) couples are foreign executives often travel to work overtime, they simply take care of the child entrusted to their parents. Occasionally do not work overtime on weekends, Yang Lu will bring her back to her home two days later. 10-year-old daughter still in the process of life, mother and daughter time with very few. With her daughter grow older and prosperous life, but she likes a loner, withdrawn and one very concerned about the attitude of her parents, on the other hand is easy to quarrel with their parents, conflicts, and an upset on the “play missing “, feel good and we have to go home.
“This is typical of ‘the spirit of children left’.” Provincial Education Department inspector Li Xiaolu said, “‘Spirit of Children Left Behind’ mental health problems is becoming a new period of social transition, but serious problems, cause for concern.”
In Guangzhou, a press survey found that many times previously, on the one hand, with the “after 70″, “80″ after the one-child parents to increase, as livelihood, entertainment or other reasons, their children being raised by others, more and more urban children; On the other hand, migrant youth are also increasingly see their children on their own in rural areas away from the drawbacks of the child into the town, and because of the inability to discipline these children in the city in a “sheep” of the state.
“But no matter which way the ‘foster care’ or ‘managed’, they can not fill the spiritual emptiness of such a child.” Li Xiaolu said, and rural children left behind many years separated from their parents, study hard in different living environment, these cities, “the spirit of Children Left Behind “are generally not separated from their parents for too long, and a more favorable living conditions for learning, but that they have been over-protected material to meet the excessive imbalance of ethical life, so there is a great spiritual emptiness, so that they a steady decline in the viability of, and induced fragile psychological endurance.
“Comparison of the previous city children or children in rural areas, urban spirit of the children left food and clothing are met, the desire will be even greater, to live is also very tired, but once they are not met, psychological distortion is easy.” Mental Health Education School Steering Committee members of the education experts, Beijing Normal University Professor Zheng Richang said.
“Spirit of staying fiercer than a tiger.” Li Xiaolu, these cases reflect the varying degrees of “the spirit of Children Left Behind” mental deficiency, more generally, these children’s understanding of and dependence on substances are gradually changed their outlook on life .
For example, a business is not usually how the father disciplines his son, but every time entertainment Come Drink With Me back, he said to his son: “Dad’s house, car, bank the tickets are yours … …” In time , his son wanted to: “Why has homework, admitted to the University may not find a job, even though they have only two or three thousand jobs a month, affordable housing, affordable car? not as good as I am cool . “Finally simply become punks.
[Lack of supportive interpersonal relationships]
The fate of two very different teenage pregnancy
Social transition, in addition to urbanization spatial distance between parents and their children, “alienation”, also produced a “mental alienation.”
Deputy Director of the China Youth Research Center, Sun Yunxiao wrote researchers at the example of two “early pregnancy girls” example —
Ah Nan (pseudonym) on a high after a sudden abnormal behavior, significant regression results, the teacher secretly look at his bag and found a letter not sent the letter, which has with the girls Xiao Ru (a pseudonym) to have sex details of the relationship between description. Ah Nan denounced the teacher to some, naturally did not hold the secret as a result, students in this school of “couple” pointing. Two students had to leave to face, usually not very time control parents think “shame” and cast aside by big plus. They decided to “run away” renting out living together in less than a semester, Xiao Ru on pregnant. “Ah Nan is also bent on children born, in order to declare war to the big people: ‘We are serious, there is love’, the two now struggling with their own flesh and blood support.”
Another example occurred in the migrant’s family. A pure sophomore girls (not his real name), home from school one day suddenly kneeling in front of his mother, burst into tears telling her mother she was pregnant. Once a farmer’s mother was almost on the faint, but soon calm down and comfort the child “as long as courage, nothing to get to make life difficult for.” After discussion with her daughter, the mother accompanied her daughter an abortion done secretly. After surgery, the mother immediately called to the school, tell the teacher her daughter had an attack of appendicitis, to rest for 20 days. “Since her daughter that the mother is the best mother in the world, vowed to do a mother proud of her daughter.” Sun Yunxiao wrote that Albania was not only passed the Beijing elite pure, but also did not finish college on the United States received three prestigious school admission notice.
Two girls, a result of eating the forbidden fruit with the pregnancy, but has a different fate. Appears in the Sun Yunxiao wrote, and psychological distance from parents is the difference between the two.
Sun Yunxiao wrote analysts say, A net is able to stumble back on its feet, mainly the success of family education, a close relationship with his mother as she opened a new journey in life support points.
“But the majority of young people in the present, there are various sub-health problems or psychological problems, one important factor is the lack of supportive relationships.” Sun Yunxiao wrote said, according to a survey of his own subjects, in the “case of the problem will be the first to tell you who “of the survey, the United States, Japan, young people are the same-sex friends ranked first, while the second is the mother; But in China, the first is the same-sex friends, and the second bit of the opposite sex friends, the third is the mother, father and even came in the “friends” after.
“This thought-provoking!” Sun Yunxiao wrote that a child can be healthy mental growth, a key is to build healthy, trusting, intimate relationship with their parent-child relationship and partnership, “so that when a problem can timely release their feelings and emotions get the buffer. “
[Exam-oriented education is the "magic fierce"]
“Point is a treasure,” the child quick success
Although the 2009 data not final form, but yesterday’s meeting, many front-line teachers think school students suicide and did not slow down the trend, and the juvenile crime on the rise.
“For a child’s growth, the pressure is necessary, normal, no pressure, people will be floating, but if excessive pressure is not effectively released or guidance, will make a child infected with a ‘coronary heart disease character’ and the ‘cancer personality’. “Jung Chang further explained that the so-called” coronary personality “is because people hope to get attention, so everything feisty; the” cancer personality “, that is, problems encountered in depressed mood, all day blissful silence. “The lack of attention to these feelings will decrease the resistance to children, the formation of physical ‘disorder’, psychological line of defense, once touched, it is easy to collapse, resulting in suicide, brutal treatment of small animals, disregard for life and so on. “
And parents in the emotional alienation, alienation from the physical force such as the environment, the examination-oriented education into a child’s psychological problems most of the “magic fierce,” Score becomes overwhelmed by the child’s last straw.
A case was revealed: a three days of boys grew up in a peasant family, has high academic achievers, the biggest wish is to be recommended for admission to the focus of high school. Teacher with his promise: as long as the College Entrance Examination then let’s use the next one first, it would definitely be no problem. While boys are happy, but on the other hand immediately uneasy. Because the class has a “dark horse” in the last several tests are closely “bite” in their own back. One day, he saw someone selling rat poison, on the ages and bought a package, the rat poison into the “dark horse” and students noodles, two students died due to poison. As the show repentance and ultimately sentenced to prison for 19 years boys.
“In prison, he regrets to say, ‘Do not be stupid like me’, even if the key test into high school is no big deal, but now catch the innocent lives of two students and their 19 years of youth. “
Sun Yunxiao wrote bitterly said: “In the exam-oriented education of the tight schedule, many parents put their children up to the word is ‘if you study well and do not have anything else you tube’, this is our neglect of education ah ! “It is reported that in 2009 the north entrance of a prestigious university psychology Mocha, the school freshmen, 35 people want to commit suicide, more than 700 people that psychological problems, but most of that learning causes excessive pressure.
In the “sub-sub is the treasure” under the baton of examination-oriented education, many families, schools, and even a society formed a quick profit, training a generation of children can not wait. “Delay of gratification, self-control, anti setback force, lack of education in pluralistic view of society, so that our children in a society full of temptations, do not know how to choose and screening, which occurred in deviant behavior.”
Guangdong is “the spirit of Children Left Behind,” the declining viability of
April 1, 2010 Guangdong Nanfang Daily Press Xiemiao Feng correspondent Education Vision
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